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Repair orientation
A behavioural signal, not a better or worse style.
Behavioural reflection
Notice how you meet tension.
Notice how you approach tension, boundaries, repair, and shared problem-solving across everyday situations.
No right answer, score, ranking, or verdict on a relationship.
Reflection dimensions
A space to notice what changes when things get difficult
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Boundary clarity
A behavioural signal, not a better or worse style.
03
Perspective-taking
A behavioural signal, not a better or worse style.
04
Emotional regulation
A behavioural signal, not a better or worse style.
05
Direct engagement
A behavioural signal, not a better or worse style.
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Collaborative problem-solving
A behavioural signal, not a better or worse style.
Questions worth asking
Limits and safety
Is this a relationship-safety assessment?
No. It cannot assess safety, abuse, or whether a relationship should continue. If you feel unsafe, prioritise immediate support and local resources.
Is there a right answer?
No. Context, power, culture, and safety can make different responses workable.
Does this diagnose conflict problems?
No. It offers language for reflection on limited scenarios, not a diagnosis or prediction.